Reader Q&A: Naming Boy #4!

Naming Boy #4

Anytime a new reader signs up to become part of the UBN email community, I ask the reader to share their biggest baby name challenges.

I was intrigued when reader Britney shared the following:

The most difficult aspect is naming multiple of the same gender! I am expecting my 4th son. 🙂

I asked Britney if I could offer some suggestions and share her predicament with all of you. She graciously agreed and added more information:

I actually found your blog because of your post on Nameberry where you mentioned all 3 of my boys’ names as names that could become Modern Classics. My boys are named Jacob, Colin, and Maxwell (nn Max). This was the post:

http://nameberry.com/blog/modern-classic-baby-names-cecilia-calvin-and-colin

Many of the other names you mentioned in that post are names we have considered. My husband is also a 4th son, and out of the 12 grandkids on his side so far, 10 are boys! It must be something genetic to have sons in this family.

Do you want to know some of the names we are currently considering? Or would you like a blank slate? Our last name starts with R and rhymes with Tool, so names with a heavy R don’t seem to have as good of flow.

I would like each boy to have their own initial and sound of name. There are a lot of names we’ve thought about that feel too similar to another. I like Oliver, but we call Colin Collie, and an Ollie and Collie would be confusing. Dylan has been another name we like, but I wonder if it’s too close having 2 names that end in the sound -lin. I’ve also liked Caleb, but it’s almost a letter for letter exchange of Jacob and Colin. Owen and Colin also feel too similar.

That’s one of the reasons we are struggling, beyond just the normal trying-to-get-two-parents-to-agree problem. Thankfully, my husband and I have similar taste.

My response:

The first name that popped into my head was Simon. To me it flows well with your other boys’ names and your last name.

  • Jacob
  • Colin
  • Maxwell/Max and
  • Simon

Simon “Tool with an R”

The next name that comes to mind is Felix:

  • Jacob
  • Colin
  • Maxwell/Max and
  • Felix

Felix “Tool with an R”

Simon and Felix do share the same endings as Colin and Max, however, that isn’t a drawback in my opinion. Colin and Simon do sound a little more repetitious than Max and Felix, and may have the same concerns you had with Colin and Owen. But Colin and Simon do not seem as confusing as your Collie and Ollie example.

This just shows that once you get to the point of naming your fourth kid, especially when all four kids are the same gender, there is bound to be some repetition. In this situation, I would only avoid the repetition if it’s excessive.

Thankfully Simon and Felix don’t share the same first initial as your older sons’ names and don’t have the strong R sound that conflicts with your last name.

I think you can’t go wrong with either one of these names, however, I did some digging to come up with other ideas:

Henry (I totally overlooked the R! My oversight.)

Isaac

Ivan

Kyle

Liam

Logan

Noah

Nolan

This is a good example of how older kids’ names eliminate other options. I considered Adrian, but nope, it has the R. I thought of Martin, but again it repeats the first initial M with Maxwell. (And again, Martin has that pesky R.) After doing some digging, I’m starting to really like Isaac from my second list. It doesn’t repeat initials, has no R, and even has a different ending than your other sons’ names.

I look forward to hearing what readers suggest.

Good Luck!

I got some more feedback from Britney that really drove home how personal preferences can really paint parents like her into a corner when naming the fourth baby:

Thank you so much for spending time to get us some ideas! You have some really good options here. I think my favorite of the list is Henry. Even with the R, this is a name we keep coming back to. It could be a name we would go with!

Issac would be a great fit with our boys, but my husband has a cousin with the same name. We both come from large, well-named families, so that is a further difficulty. 🙂 Logan is also the name of a cousin of my boys. But they are both fantastic names. I also think Nolan is a little close to Colin, but it’s a great name, and one we’ve thrown around.

I think Simon is a name that could fit with our current sib set. I’ve never considered it, but I think it could grow on me. Felix is a name I’ve been hearing a lot more of lately, and it’s growing on me as well. This is why I’ve been trying to find out an answer early–some names take a little time to simmer! 🙂

Again, thank you so much for the suggestions! You did a great job nailing our style.

Thanks again Britney for sharing your story.

And if you find a name you really like that breaks your no-R rule, I encourage you to use the name anyway. I don’t think R always causes any problems with your last name. I would only avoid names that end in R to prevent run-on.

Readers: What is your favorite name for Britney’s fourth boy?

 

Comments

  1. Thank you so much! I am loving following the responses. Is there any way to see what the “other “suggestions are?

    • Hi Britney,
      I meant to reply sooner and my PC was wonky on Friday. It is only 1.5 years old! Dreaming of a Mac.

      So, unfortunately, the other responses are only available to me, but I will certainly share 🙂

      There are 4 so far, and some great suggestions:

      Harvey
      Hudson
      Oscar
      Alec

      Harvey is surprisingly underused in the US, but somewhat popular in the UK.

  2. Gorgeously named boys!
    I find it helpful to consider the ending sounds when dealing with sibling names. Your current names end with X, N, B.

    Here are some others for you to consider that have different beginning and ending sounds:
    Jacob, Colin, Maxwell and
    Frederick (Freddy)
    Edward (Eddie)
    Luke/Lucas
    Silas
    Angus/August (Gus)
    Nathaniel
    Andrew (Drew)
    Bennett
    Theodore (Theo)

  3. jennifer R. says:

    Hi Britney!

    I second the Harvey suggestion and also wanted to add Benjamin, Samuel, Daniel, and Graham. I think Sam would be great with your sib set! Jacob, Colin, Max, & Sam just work well together for me. Graham gives you a more unusual choice that doesn’t need a nickname, fits your criteria, and it just sounds like a “little brother” to me.

    I also love the longer names with short nicknames. Ben, Sam, Dan/Danny all have this classic feeling the them but feel rare right now.

    Good luck choosing!

  4. I think these names would work well:

    Adam, Elliot, Isaac, Nicholas, Silas, Thomas, and William.

  5. Thank you all for your help and votes! We ended up naming the little guy Henry and we think it suits him. (Although, as a side note, my 6-year-old has decided to call him Theodore. I don’t think he’ll stop anytime soon either. 🙂 Thank you for giving me the confidence to use a name we loved!

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